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Submitted 01 Sep 2006 I also find that the age of my interests have not increased since my first sexual experience (both of us were 9). And I realize that, for me, it's not going to change. I have to accept it, learn about all this stuff, and above all feel comfortable with myself and my feelings. The key to fitting into this society, regardless of what I think of it or what area is under discussion, is self-control. It starts with self-image. Of being comfortable with yourself, proud of who you are and how you are living your life. For me, self-conrol starts with defining exactly what my rules will be. I do interact with kids. I quite obviously enjoy it. I don't do things that would make parents uncomfortable. I don't do things that would arouse suspicion. I don't touch anyone below the belt, ever. You know something? I still get to do 90% of the things I want to do. And a number of families feel comfortable with me. As far as your friends wanting to see girlfriends, or your mother wanting to see grandchildren, I can't help you there. Except to maybe choose your "friends" better :-) Cody (17)

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