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Questions				Answers
Name	Age	Question	Date	#	Most recent reply
Mike	20	Younger teens going after older teens?	19 Jul 07	0
David	20	Getting over what treatment did to me	11 Jul 07	1	Bob	10 Aug 07
Bob	15	Find others my age to share feelings with	27 Jun 07	1		31 Jul 07
Kevin	17	Fantasies about sex with boys... Wrong?	9 Jun 07	2	Anthony	16 Jul 07
James	16	Where does it come from?	6 Jun 07	1	Cody	22 Jul 07
SoSexy	17	Straight male likes prepubescent boys	1 Jun 07	0
"I"	26	I downloaded porn from the internet.	23 May 07	1	Cody	15 Jul 07
Shane	15	So how do I find out if he likes me?	19 May 07	0
Snakeyes	35	Is it wrong to be attracted to young boys?	27 Apr 07	1	Cody	15 Jul 07
"Me"	14	Friends with boys, older BL, girlfriend. Help!	7 Apr 07	1	Jamie	17 Apr 07
Jonty	23	How do I improve my self control?	31 Mar 07	1	Cody	18 Apr 07
Joe	23	I hate myself so much it hurts inside.	19 Mar 07	1	Matsuri	16 Apr 07
Maty	19	What I should do to minimize these urges?	17 Feb 07	0
Adam	15	I feel like a monster but I know I'm not.	10 Feb 07	0
Graeme	28	Boys sportswear - wrong to look?	23 Oct 06	1	Steve	24 May 07
Justin	21	For fear of being labeled a pedophile	18 Oct 06	1	Dr.	24 Apr 07
Anon		Is there "therapy" for boylove?	11 Oct 06	0
FrankF	17	I feel sex is nasty. Masturbation is safer.	11 Oct 06	0
Matt		Is "incest" among young brothers illegal?	05 Oct 06	1	Cody	18 Oct 06
Danny	25	My 6 yo brother accused me of abuse.	30 Sep 06	1	Jonty	23 Mar 07
Joe	13	I'm sorta involved with an older guy.	26 Sep 06	2	Shiro	01 Sep 06
Pete	33	I struggle liking young boys, feel isolated.	17 Sep 06	2	Maty	18 Feb 07
Maddox	15	I just want to live a normal life.	27 Aug 06	2	Vince	15 Oct 06
Repdetect	23	No girlfriend, people are starting to wonder.	17 Aug 06	1	Cody	1 Sep 06
Lance	21	I am just as confused and angry as ever.	30 Jul 06	1	Cody	1 Sep 06
Nick	21	I fall for boys at least 9 years younger.	29 Jul 06	3	Nick	5 Aug 06
Boaboy	21	Should I work in a children's home?	15 Jul 06	3	Coif	10 Feb 07
Shiro	23	How do the age of consent laws work?	19 Jun 06	3	Kid	16 Jul 06
Cody	17	"Who can I talk to?" Who can you trust?	17 Jun 06	4	Matthew	21 Jun 06
Jason	46	A curse, or something positive?	9 Jun 06	2	Shiro	16 Jun 06
Andy	17	Feelings of being molested; being a BL?	26 May 06	3	Boaboy	15 Jul 06
Vince	15	How do you get a boy to notice you?	15 May 06	1	Cody	17 May06
Vince	15	How can i stop the self hate?	12 May 06	2	Cody	17 May06
Andy	17	Is It Ever Okay To Use Child Porn?	9 May 06	5	Spoonsh..	19 Jul 06
Christophe	20	How can I live?	16 Apr 06	2	Spoonsh..	1 Aug 06
john	21	I just wish i had some one to talk to.	18 Jan 06	2	bobby	5 Apr 06
*****	19	I don't know if I'm a boylover.	12 Dec 05	3	Snakeyes	27 Apr 07
Marc		I'm desparate.	27 Nov 05	1	Matthew	29 Nov 05
Matsuri	26	I've lost my best friend. What do I do?	6 Oct 05	2	Matsuri	16 Apr 07
Basit	22	How can I tell my family?	10 Sep 05	0
krkxx	27	Is it okay to have a boylover friend?	2 Sep 05	0
Chelel	16	When can we legally be together?	3 Aug 05	0
Lost	15	Is there something wrong with me?	28 Jan 05	3	Les	27 Jul 05
Bobby	19	Seeing boys in underwear get me in trouble?	17 Jan 05	0
Nick	15	Anything I can do to stop being a BL?	9 Jan 05	6	Snakeyes	27 Apr 07
Donald	19	Can't have a relationship; lost and helpless.	3 Jan 05	2	Daniel	16 Jul 05
Fred		Discussing adult/youth sexual encounters?	7 Dec 04	1	Matthew	8 Dec 04
Kty	17	Explain the age of consent for new york.	30 Nov 04	2	Vinny	17 Sep 05
Skyler	20	How did your YF relationship come about?	25 Nov 04	1	Cody	8 Dec 04
Andrew	20	Did you have an AF you were sexual with?	26 Oct 04	0
Tristan	17	How do I understand my weird orientation?	22 Oct 04	1	Matthew	30 Oct 04
Josh	19	Wanting to talk with somebody in real life	24 Sep 04	7	Adam	28 Mar 06
Jiji	19	I love little boys, what can I do for this?	18 Sep 04	2	Andrew	26 Oct 04
Lance	19	I think I am a boylover. I am very unhappy.	22 Jul 04	4	Kyle	13 Mar 06
Ahmed	23	Why do boys leave me?	26 May 04	3	amanda	25 Sep 05
Dave	41	Is age of consent same as being a minor?	11 May 04	3	Kid	16 Jul 06
Jasper	23	Are sexual fantasies about boys wrong?	31 Mar 04	2	fntm	13 Apr 04
Falcon	24	Pictures of boys in speedos	9 Mar 04	7	donald	5 Oct 05
Asianboi	18	Scared that someone will notice	29 Feb 04	1	fntm	19 Jun 04
Ahmad	28	Arabic country...	3 Feb 04	2	rony	2 Jun 05
Michael	19	Problems controlling myself	30 Jan 04	3	Donald	3 Jan 05
Espen	23	End it, hurt him?	10 Jan 04	4	Espen	18 Mar 04
Kevin	29	How is it?	5 Jan 04	2	FireFox	12 Apr 04
Robby	15	Should I say something?	6 Nov 03	4	Jim	11 Sep 04
David	28	Looking at legal pics	26 Oct 03	7	chris	16 Jan 06
Francis	21	Is befriending a young child illegal?	11 Oct 03	4	Cody	17 Oct 03
Flik	18	How do I break it off?	3 Oct 03	4	Ryan	9 Nov 03
Pete	?	How do you cope with it?		7	Cordenas	11 Nov 03
Andrew	23	Why can't I say what I feel?		3	Gary	17 Oct 04
Joey	23	Would it be wrong?		5	Jack	24 Jun 04
Alfonso	19	How do you deal with the longing?		3	Steven	25 Oct 03
Michael	19	How can I be happy?		1	Alfonso
James	24	An unhealthy obsession?		2	Joe_uk	11 Sep 03
Dustin	18	Are my feelings evil?		10	Pat	28 Dec 03

 

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