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Submitted 26 Oct 04 Well, I have tried dealing with being a bl in many ways. These have included psychotherapy, denial, attempted suicide and having sex with adult guys. One thing I can assure you is that after having been in therapy for almost 2 years I am convinced that you cannot change your bl feelings, because god knows I tried with zero success. I think the best thing to do is accept it and try not to let it consume your life. Andrew (20) ___________________ Submitted 2 Oct 04 Hi Jiji I am a psychologist boylover. Not only am I not concerned about being a boylover I am proud to be one. We have great sensitivity and an unusual gift which allows us to be able to communicate with children, especially boys, often better than their own parents can. Love is the key word in your statement. If love is present (unconditional love that is...which means the boy's needs and wishes come first) your feelings must be on the right track. Colin (55)

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