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Submitted 13 Mar 2006 Lance i am now were you have been. I was raped by older boys when i was little, and now I like having sex with my guy freinds...but I dont want to become a pedofile even though I like sex with boys. I have had severaal boy lovers now, I am almost 15, but for almost 6 months i have not had sex becaus I have been taught to pray to Jesus for the will to not get sex from other boys. I want to be like every one and have a wife and kids some day and not go to jail for abusing kids. the more I pray the stronger I am and I hope you will find the peace i have through Jesus. good luck Kyle (14) _______________________ Submitted 20 Sep 04 Dude,I know how you feel, Im in the same boat as you. I have recently figured out that theres nothing you can do about it so I have accepted who I am. Once you do the same you will see how much easier your life will become. Chris (18) _______________________ Submitted 12 Aug 04 Dear Lance: I noted your request and would like to express my sadness at your particular situation. I am probably not the best one to offer advice to you since I have a record for underage sex, but I would definitely not like to see you going down the same road. It seems you have had a difficult life so far, but there is help out there for you. You expressed unhappiness and that's a big issue that would concern me. If I may, I will offer just a few ideas to consider. First, please do all you can to avoid breaking the law; that's important. Next, check out the article in the Information section of AGE TABOO and reflect on the article on Mental Health; it's really good and important for you at this stage. Finally, I hope you find and talk to a 'significant other'in your life to help you talk things through on a regular basis. You are not alone in your problems. I am only now, at my age, getting a clearer picture of my situation. I hope this helps. I wish you well and with guidance and direction you will have a successful and happy life. Ormond (49) _______________________ Submitted 9 Aug 04 Lance, Listen, pal, I know how you feel. I am a boylover. I like boys 8 to 13. You need to learn more about boylove. Take time to learn. There is a difference between boylove and molesting. Identify those differences. Jamie (34)

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